Tis the season to be jolly. Or is it. The holidays can be one of the most depressing time for some. For me it's a time to remember the things that I have and work towards the things that I don't. My ultimate goal this year was to put myself first. Learning how to live life as Jameka, as well as mommy, and wife can be difficult but hey, someone has to do it. Over the years, I have gotten great advice about how to live life and accomplish those goals. This time I have decided to apply a lot of it to the holidays.
1. Create your narrative - This is very important. Everyone has decided what the holidays should be like the tradition of having dinner with your family but it is most important to be surrounded by loving, supportive people. Depending on our season, we plan events and moments that we can have fun and enjoy the company of friends and family. Its not always traditional but its us.
2. Relax - The holidays can be so overwhelming. I am learning how to navigate and only do what I can. So, preplanning is SO IMPORTANT! I'm in the process of getting ready for Christmas and its more fun because I'm not in a rush. What gets done, gets done.
3. Have fun- Remember you are creating memories. Each year, I get more excited! I see Christmas through my children's eyes and its magical. They are at a point where they still believe in Santa, so we make our lists and mail them out, they get so excited for what's to come. We have also started the tradition of decorating on Thanksgiving. Since home decor is my happy place, I have fun and my stress disappears as I add Christmas touches all over the house.
So. Let's be jolly and welcome the holidays and a preparation for the new year. Remember, don't stress and don't over exert yourself because it takes the fun out of precious moments.
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